Inspired by Jordan Peterson’s advice: couples who invest 90 focused minutes a week talking about their lives, challenges, and dreams greatly increase their chances of staying together.
I build tools that make those 90 minutes easier, deeper, and more consistent.
“People need to spend at least 90 minutes a week talking to each other just about their lives… so that intimacy doesn’t disappear.”
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Relationships don’t fall apart overnight. They erode in silence – missed conversations, unspoken hurts, and drifting attention. 90 Minutes a Week exists to reverse that drift.
Build the habit of one focused conversation every week. No phones, no distractions, just the two of you.
Apps and exercises that give you prompts, structure, and reminders – so you don’t have to reinvent the wheel.
Like going to the gym before you’re sick, you invest in your relationship before it’s in crisis.
I was married for seven years. When my marriage ended, it was one of the most painful experiences of my life. It didn’t explode in one day – it slowly deteriorated over time.
Looking back, I realized that we didn’t have a consistent space to talk honestly about what was happening: our stress, our disappointments, our needs, our fears.
I made myself a promise: I would help people with struggling marriages take pre-emptive action. Not just “crisis counseling” when everything is on fire, but small weekly “relationship workouts” – like going to the gym to stay fit, not just to recover after an injury.
I’m an app developer. So I decided to use that skill to build tools that help couples build that 90-minute habit and keep their relationship strong.
These are products I’ve built to help couples structure their 90 minutes and strengthen their relationship.
90Minutes: Your Ultimate Relationship Companion Build and nurture stronger, more fulfilling relationships with 90Minutes, an innovative app designed to help couples thrive. Whether you're looking to add a spark to your relationship, deepen your connection, or simply stay organized with shared reminders, 90Minutes has you covered.
I’m Home is a simple but powerful ritual for the moment that matters most: the first few minutes after you return home. After a long day of work, stress, or commuting, it’s easy to bring outside tension into your home. I’m Home helps you pause, reset, and step through the door with calm, clarity, and intention — ready to connect with your partner, your family, or simply yourself.
Want to collaborate, ask a question, or get early access to new tools? Send me a message and I’ll get back to you.
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